
"Even Superman Needs a Dad", by Liz Lemon Swindle
My three year old son, Danny, asked me, “Daddy, what do you want to be when you grow up?” Seeing the sincerity in his eyes, I thought for a minute, then I gave him my standard answer: a businessman/teacher/artist. It was my go-to response, the one that keeps me going. It covers everything I enjoy professionally, and represents what I want to do now and in the future. Then, I flipped the question, asking Danny what he wants to be when he grows up.
“A Firefighter, a Cowboy, a Superhero, and a ‘Hiya’ Guy,” he responded. Essentially, he was saying, “I want to be someone who is ridiculously tough, has superpowers, knows wicked martial arts moves, and saves people. When he stated his answer, he said it with pure confidence that it would happen and as if anyone who questioned it would be insane to even think of obstructing the truth. Suddenly, I found myself wanting Danny’s career path more than my own.
Why was I instantly ready to abandon my own future plans and join my son in putting out massive fires, protecting livestock, kicking the evil out of criminals, and saving the world? Because it is awesome! So, what do I do? What do we do when our plans don’t seem to measure up with the world-saving plans of a dewy-eyed, eternally optimistic three year old? Re-think, re-imagine, and restore.
Re-think your work. Is it really what you want to do for eight hours a day, 50 weeks a year? Is there something more to it? Are there hidden strengths and talents you need to share with the world that you may have overlooked or neglected? The best advice I ever received was to write down on a 3×5 card the top three things you enjoy doing the most. Then, circle the top one, and go out and find someone who will pay you to do it.
Re-imagine your plan. Consider the castles in the sky you envisioned as a child. Yes, maybe some of them are still unrealistic, like jumping off a roof and actually flying, but some are still possible. Think about the plans you had to create amazing works of art, to build the house of your dreams, to start a business, to get an advanced degree, to run for political office, to become the very best in the world at whatever. Albert Einstein, one of the most knowledgeable people who ever lived, once declared, “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Create your career and life plans based on your imagination, and you will soon find yourself achieving the impossible.
Restore your life. Remember the inspiring feelings you had when you wanted to change the world. Think of the times you saw people suffering or struggling and wanted to take action. No matter where you are, in whatever you choose to do, you can make a difference in how you serve your fellow beings. Do it. Make a difference. Change the world.
–Chris